I'm a recovering sex addict who is in a fairly new relationship. I'm trying hard to be good and I still find myself trying to stray. How can I stop?

My understanding is that treatment for sex addiction generally follows the 12 steps.

What kind of treatment did you receive and how long have you been in recovery?

I didn't actually receive treatment. I basically stayed away from everyone after my actions faced alot of social consequences. That lasted nearly a year. He knows some of the details about my issues. But I haven't laid it out in black and white. Which I know I should do but he's a little well sexually reserved. We have great sex. So great that I could probably be with just him. But he is only around on weekends. And the week is very hard to deal with.

Yes difficult to be faithful. I have a group in my phone listed as BC "booty call" it contains the guys I usually get ahold of to hook up. But to many of them want to talk and they get attached so sometimes I find someone new to add to this list. This could be someone I just haven't slept with yet, barely know and not to often someone I just met. I've had a few std scares, thankfully they were just that, scares. So I try very hard to be conscious of that. Which I totally failed at from time to time. My boyfriend and I dont use protection. I had my tubes tied after my third baby. So we aren't concerned with that. But if I stray hes at risk unless I fess up and lose him. I don't want either of those to be my choices. I want to be faithful. I tend to stick for the most part with people I know because it can be as simple as a text an things are in motion. And I live in a small town. my image in this town is already openly tainted. some of my indiscretions became public. Including an affair with a married man and his friend in the married mans bar after close. And when we brought a woman back to my house. Busted having sex in a public bathroom. Hotel hallway. There is alot against me so I try to keep it low key.