Ultimately, an addict has to decide that he or she wants help. If love could cure addiction, we wouldn't have a drug problem in the world, or treatment centers. The only kind of love that does any good is tough love. Unless he thinks he has a problem, there's little you can do but make sure his addiction doesn't hurt you. You can try to push him towards treatment but if he won't take it, he won't take it.
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